1) YES with the "Article Sharing for JMS" that is an additional extension to add at JMS Multisites.
2) YES it is possible to share SOBI2.
It is in the list of extension that can be shared.
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3) YES but if you install the "Article Sharing for JMS" it is possible to read and display any articles coming from any website defined in JMS Multisites.
4) YES but becarefull if you want to share extension like SOBI2 you will need to have MySQL user privileges to share the MySQL tables between different DB
5) YES. See tutorial video CP-05
www.jms2win.com/tutorial#jms12x-CP-05
6) YES see the limited list of extension that can be shared
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