1) YES.
If you have purchased 2 domains, you have setup them in your HTTP Admin tool (ie. cpanel) and you have to defined them into JMS Multisites - "Manage Site" menu.
b) Symbolic Link is used for the files and folder (This is not related to the DB).
So if you want to be able have a specific deployed directory for your new 2 domains then you must have the Symbolic Link allowed to provide the full path directory where you want that the domains have their directories.
See for example the tutorial video CP-04 that show something similar for a subdomain a cPanel.
If you are using cPanel, you must create an AddOn Domain where you will specfy the document root that must be equal to JMS Multisites "deployed directory". Same location in both HTTP Admin tool (ie. cpanel) and JMS Multisties deployed directory.
I suggest that you have a look in the different tutorial video that may help you understand the concept and also understand how works the symbolic link.
www.jms2win.com/tutorial