You can try developing your own module or component that would accept such scenario but JMS has not develop such things.
The problem with your scenario is that you keep the user totally independent and you request your customers to register several times in your websites.
We better think investigate the new Joomla 1.6 alpha 2 and its new ACL to see how we could improve the user filtering - but this will request several month before expect something.
Perhaps by end of this year or begin of next year.
If you want that we help you in this specific module or component this is possible with our billable support that you can order at
www.jms2win.com/download?page=shop.produ...35&category_id=1